Wednesday, January 9, 2008

a real man

does this person really exist? the perfect man? the real deal?
some say yes, he is out there, you/i just have not found him yet.
ok, i think below are what most ladies' definition of a perfect man would be:
  1. great hair
  2. hard rocking well toned body
  3. dresses well even when dressing down
  4. intelligent leading to super excellent career
  5. drop dead gorgeous car
  6. super alluring crib
  7. tonnes of money
  8. fantastic sense of humour
  9. well bred and thoughtful
  10. excellent manners
  11. great conversationalist
  12. independent
  13. spontaneous and passionate
  14. loyal

when a girl is asked who would be your dream lover? almost without fail, we would say.. jeng-jeng-jeng... BRAD PITT!

yes, he is gorgeous and all but come to think of it.. the bloody bloke cheated on jennifer aniston for another luscious babe obviously; angelina jolie and denied his lust with claims that the poor sweetheart didn't want to have babies. please la! who in the right mind could say no to angelina jolie? even if in some twisted cosmic event where i was to turn lesbo, then definitely she would be on my top five list as well. hehe.

honestly i do know for a fact that the perfect man does not exist. truth be told, in my opinion, the imperfections are factors that makes a person beautiful. theoretically, once the individual knows that he/she is with imperfections then they will try their very best to outshine it with other great qualities that contributes to the attractiveness of the person; in whole. should that not count for something? i think it should. a million points for the efforts! of course the saying, dari mata jatuh ke hati is undeniable to a certain extend. we like what we see. we judge. we're only humans.

once, i was in a conversation with one of my dearest friends that was about to tie the knot and she asked me, 'how do i know if he is the right one?'. after a few minutes of battering over right and wrong, we came to a conclusion, there is no mr.right no matter how much you try to convice yourself. there is however , mr. right now; and hopefully along the way, even beyond every single flaws that he has, you'll come to learn that it is acceptable and there's no way in heaven you could ever exist without him, no matter what. probably then, you'll drop the now and everything will be just... right.

here's a toast to 'hope' !

4 comments:

yenjai.net said...

Err...
If there is REALLY such a man, what is the chance that you can fight off the millions of fansee to grab him?

But of course, you are the famous Nora, you sure win ^-^

Nora Elina said...

ah, no such man exist.
me not famous lei!

just another with a huge fantasy. =)

Jacque Le Coq Grande said...
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Nora Elina said...

how can there be a perfect person? everyone has flaws. you, me and the rest of the world. that's just a fact. but it does not mean that people are not great. everyone is special in their own ways. that's what attracts two people to be together.