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not too long ago, a friend of mine claimed to have lost her handphone and she accused another friend of mine of stealing it. she was absolutely sure it was him and claimed that there was no one else around that could have committed the crime. i heard bout it and said, "please be sure. you have to have proof". of course she was sure but to me, of course a person can most of the time be sure even without proof. she asked me to confront him, i told her, "without proof i cannot ask him to return your phone but i could ask if he knows anything about it". she agreed. well that friend of mine suggested i help her to look for the handphone instead of wasting my time asking because he had nothing to do with it. so i helped her look, and it was not easy as she was very upset and could not stop crying after hearing that he had deny the accusation. Alhamdulillah, we found her phone, apparently, earlier, she got involved in a quarrel with her boyfriend and lost focus on what she was doing, she even bought a new sim card so her boyfriend could not contact her anymore (anyway, that's beside the point.. sempat pulak iklan, hehe). i told her you have to salam and ask forgiveness from him because u had brand him as a thief without proof. kesalahan antara manusia hanya manusia boleh memaafkan. and so she did, she took his hand and apologized again and again and again, he blushed and said, "lain kali, cari dulu". i could not help thinking that, orang perempuan bila berfikir dengan emosi- sungguh berdrama. she even said, "jangan beritahu orang lain tau, malu lah". well, no names, kira tak beritahu la tu... (saja nak berkongsi. heh). another friend of mine that knows her well also said she's like that one, sometimes so fast to point fingers sampai bagaikan cerita orang baru beranak satu sudah dikata telah bercucu. haha, aren't we all pun sama juga? dont get me wrong, i love her, she's humble, hardworking and friendly. kalau kita berperang dengan orang yang kita sayang siapa-siapa pun akan jadi sewel, ye tak? oh well, she gave me her new number twice already since that insident, but i still haven't saved it till today. im so forgetful. note to self : apologize, reguest and store her new number. haish.